You are a women in an edge of 25 years of marvelous experience in life.
You’ve been burden for your parents (some) since 20+ years now, its time to pass it on well “settled man”, c’mon you don’t need to have ambitious life or a choice.
You are ageing and wrinkles will hug your face anyway so, before you gets old and ugly, marry!
Before your unknown/known relatives ask about your age and advice you about marriage. just marry!
Before someone doubt your life, just marry!
Before your life gets mess and questionable because you can’t handle it, just marry! you are no capable of taking care of yourself, are you?
Because your friends are getting married, so just marry!
Because its tradition of womanhood to get married before 25, just marry! before patriarchy haunts you.
You are no worthwhile in 21st century and your legacy of dependency should pass on to next generation.
P.S: May be Not everyone is having this type of mindset but still most percent of people live on this attitude/tradition. By the way this is the reality in most of the patriarchy hallway.
Want to change all these stereotypes but wait I’m I being feminist or rude, arrogant to my parents?
Highly relatable 😊😊
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Yeah😅
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Stay happy and keep writing
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Thanks, mitty and keep supporting😄
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Agree or not, this is the truth. Marriage is considered as the most important thing in life. From childhood till you are married, talks will come back to the marriage topic 👍👍
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Yeah, it gets worse when girls are at there 20s!
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😊😊
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My old married lady advice: don’t ever get married. 😉
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Even gents are compelled to marry at the age of 25..
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Yeah, but the pressure of marrying at 25 is more with female vis-a-vis male😕. Whatever gender maybe, it’s high time to break this stereotype.
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Yes…. the people around me started compelling me to marry for past some years it very irritating…
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Yeah, I can understand. I’m also going through the same situation. Best of luck pal😃.
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This is market. How much much you have to give get depends on your age, education and job.
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Yes, unfortunately, people still live in that era!
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It’s very disheartening! People should give more preference to values
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Yes, u r right🙂. Hope the people learn about respecting values more.
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Let’s hope and do for the best.🥰
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Very interesting and true. This is a traditional mindset. Somehow it is changing now. I’ve known many parents who do not subscribe to that view. They are happy with their daughters’ lives, careers and achievements.
I agree that the mindset of the entire society needs to change. Very well written
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Thanks, Parneet Sachdev. Yes, the entire society mindset needs to be changed on marriage. Keep supporting like this🙂
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Our parents and elders have our best intentions but sadly, those intentions don’t count our happiness or if we are ready. I grew up a culture where I have to behave a certain way, be someone that I’m not. It’s very conflicting . On one end we love our parents and we don’t want to disappoint, on one end is ourselves with hope and dreams of our own. Personally , I learned to follow my heart because when problems comes to a marriage , it’s us that will solve it , not our parents . Wishing you all the happiness.
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You are right, marriage is not just ceremony it’s life long commitment. The place I come from, society just wants to follow their tradition, they don’t care that two lives stand to commit for life long. The sad part is that we are living in the 21st century everything needs to be upgraded everyday but not marriage concept😕
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No you’re asking them to give you space .Well written! We need more girls who could speak about this stereotype infront of everyone .
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Thanks, Vishal. Whenever I try to break this stereotype, I always get to hear what do you know about the tradition? And they start to complain about our generation standards😅. But still trying to change🙂.
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Very well written
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Thank you😄
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Anytime 😊
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It is actually ironic how your relatives tell you not to have a boyfriend at around 15 years old to 19 years old – something like that. Then you reach 20 years old and up, they’ll be going to ask you why you don’t have a boyfriend still. They’ll be insisting you should get married at that age. LOL.
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Yeah! It’s true😄. Having bf is a sin but marrying a stranger with all arranged tradition is a culture🤦♀️
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Hahaha gosh headaches! 😄😄
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Nice blog
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Thank you🙂
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Well written
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Thanks ashish😊
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Hahaha… awesome post… it’s good to break stereotypes and wonderful blog posts… great!!
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Thanks Aakash😃
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You are welcome Ms. Vidya…
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Wow! You nailed this beautifully.
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Thank you and keep supporting 😄
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Exactly!
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Good for you!! Yes, be feminist , rude, whatever they call it , but be yourself ! I’ve been though the same thing a long time ago, but I followed my heart and did what I wanted 😘
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Thanks for your support😃, yes, following my heart is the only the best thing that happened in spirit.
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Well written post on so called tradition which was never meant to be in tradition.. it was just followed by people to their perception..
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Traditions need to be evolved and so perceptive🙂
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Very well written, and being true to yourself is the best gift you can give your parents 🙂
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Thank you🙂
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And the pressure
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Ufff, that cost me acne breakout🤦♀️
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Amazing post!
And if they think we’re rude or something like that, not our problem. The important thing is to be ourselves and make our own choices happily and satisfied 💕
Thank you for sharing it so beautifully 🙂
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Yes, it’s true. It’s their problem, not ours. Through the whole process, it made me strong🙂. Thank you for stopping by.
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True indeed!!!
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Awesome post! Also, I know many women who put that expectation on themselves and think that there’s something wrong with them if they don’t marry by that age. And it’s a lie we’ve all been fed. Thank you so much for this post.
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